Menjadi viral di laman sosial seorang wanita Melayu menjadi sasaran kritikan netizens selepas gadis berkenaan telah memuatnaik gambar kahwinnya dilaman Instagram mengikut upacara perkahwinan agama Kristian.
Beliau yang dikenali sebagai Haida Yusof seorang editor untuk sebuah laman web telah mengahwini seorang lelaki berkulit putih baru-baru ini.
Rata-rata netizens yang mengikuti Instagram wanita berkenaan menyoalkan agama wanita berkenaan dan mengkritiknya kerana mengikut upacara agama lain selain meninggalkan adat perkahwinan Melayu.
Beliau dilihat tanpa segan silu bercium mulut di khalayak ramai dan pengantin lelaki pula meraikan majlis berkenaan dengan meminum arak.
Kerana kritikan tersebut dia telah tampil memuatnaik sebuah gambar bertulis melayu dengan kepsyen
So I got back to my hotel room to hoards of hate mails and 'kepoh' comments from people who think they have a clue about what my life is all about. People ask me if I am malay, (pakistan/chinese/indian to be exact) Because that automatically means Islam is budaya Melayu only. First of all, Melayu tak wujud-bangsa tak wujud. (Yang fail sejarah tu please baca balik tgk mana the roots of 'Melayu') Islam never teaches us to differentiate your saudara from skin color, status, blood, etc. Secondly, I had two ceremonies, one to honor my culture, one his. For my muslim ceremony, he honored my culture and rites, so why cant I, too? Islam tak haramkan tolerance with other religion and culture asalkan tk bercanggah dengan Islam. That is NOT a priest officiating us (this is hillarious) he did it out of symbolic cultural references which I found no harm done (its my way of respecting & honoring my inlaws). There was only love and unity in that ceremony ❤️ .
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Intercultural marriage is one of the most encouraged things to do in Islam, and we compromised to fit both cultural demands and I find that absolutely beautiful. :) what is wrong on embracing cultures? You Malays do many things that are haram in Islam but tutup sebelah mata; bersanding, tepung tawar, hantaran mahal2, cukur kening, fitnah, bukak aib orang tu tak haram? People say if u have nothing nice to say than shut up, you do not live in my shoes and you have no right to play God in my case and you go about worrying abt your own live. I swear extreme mentality like this is the cause for the downfall of this nation. Calm your tits down, Malays and start being kind to your neighbours and stop being overanalytical creeps. Islam tu indah and senang, I married a mualaf and he isnt perfect, neither do I and all of you :) Got time summore to put my pics in collage ��. Be kind to your neighbours and love all and learn and embrace the good. ❤️���� here's to a better, accomodating Malaysia. P/s: leave your goodie-goodie abusive comments out the door, nak tnya can ask elok2, where's your manners, buat malu mak bapak je.
���� haters gonna hate ���� now back to my bab* guling in Bali.
Berdasarkan tulisan itu, dia menempelak sikap orang melayu yang 'kepoh' dengan hal berkenaan dan mudah membuat andaian tentang hidupnya. Beliau juga meminta orang Melayu supaya tidak meletakkan Islam saja harus jadi Melayu.
Katanya", "Islam tidak mengajar membezakan'saudara' melalui warna kulit, status, darah dan pelbagai lagi."
"saya mempunyai dua majlis perkahwinan dimana satu mengikut budaya ini(Kristian) dan satu lagi mengikut Islam, Islam tidak haramkan tolenrasi sesama agama selagi tidak bercanggah."
Wanita juga memberitahu suaminya itu merupakan seorang Mualaf dan sememangnya tidak sempurna. - SUMBER
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